Some updates

I haven't had a chance to update the blog lately but here are some new developments. 1. Ongoing China and U.S. conflicts in South China Sea. 2. Downtown Vancouver Viaducts removal approved. 3. Justin Trudeau got elected as the Prime Minister of Canada. 4. Astronomical housing price and bubble remains in Vancouver, Some personal developments. 1. I now try to play badminton as much as possible, 4 times a week minimum to a maximum of 5 times a week. Badminton is very nice sport which allows you not only to remain focused while playing but also to run around on court and hit at the birdie shuttle. I find it a great stress relief. 2. After almost a year of relationship with this girl I was dating we broke off back in July. We broke off partly because of her hot temperament and being too judgemental, partly because of me being too naive, and cannot foresee something greater coming out of this relationship. speed_demon

情异

相爱容易相处难 体量体贴慢慢来 赌气伤身容忍无 最终领悟爱回迟 单身从起遗恨谁

家园

父母爱子，牺牲一切 儿女照老，理所当然 男女互爱，温家永恒 岁月相应，白头偕老

A new revelation and outlook

I no longer attend the group of deception and lies. Although I still join the weekly badminton event every Saturday afternoon at Badminton Vancouver because I enjoy badminton greatly. It's one of the very few sports I like and can excel in.

I have also joined a younger group and play with them weekly Sunday night and making new friends. They are energetic and kind and not deceptive as the old, bitter divorcee from the older group. They are more youthful and down to earth, which really is who I am. I am really glad that I have found somewhere I belong in Vancouver!

Looking back at this summer 2013. I really did enjoy every moment of it. Although I didn't actively chasing after superficial girls and princesses, I did grow myself personally and the seed did sprout to something better than ever. For once, I finally know what's work life balances, and for once I finally dare myself enough to drive to Tofino and to Powell River, Lund all from Vancouver. These experiences truly amazed that little frog of mine, sitting at the bottom of a tiny well until it leapt great forward and escaped from the bottomless abyss.

I thank God for protecting me all the way throughout these travesties and adventures, especially for what I have done in Cancun. You really protected me all the way, and I will be the witness of your everlasting grace and tolerance until the end of the time!

快樂過著就挺好了。。。

我實實在在覺得一個人自己過得快樂就好了。雖然還是單身但是現在金錢與時間都很充分，也有一個穩定工作，而且喜歡自己做自己的事，這我想是在好都不過的。

一個人就別太虛榮，別太挑剔，要不會引起嫉妒與討厭。現在我一週打十五小時以內羽毛球，實在是很佩服自己都三十多了還有這種體格。其他朋友也是嫉妒，只不過他們不說而已。這夏天爬Grouse Grind最好爬了５３分鐘。是我往常最好的一次！今年去了將近五次，每一次都是５７分鐘一下，真牛b！

之前有個個性很奇怪朋友，可能就是自己體格年齡３５沒那麼好所以後來想跟他聯絡他都不接，不接就算了。你自己脾氣不好，個性差，體格不好就不要把自己捆綁住。我雖然有時候罵髒話不過我還是設法與朋友交往，這才是王道！

之前我說的那位公主，結果一年下來還是單身。聽說他真的很挑。挑就挑吧，反正女生比男生老的快，男生比女生更有利！每次短信跟他說出來吃飯或喝咖啡都找藉口。我好朋友說叫我別裡你這是真的。其實我也懶得跟你浪費青春，金錢與時間。就讓你自生自滅吧。。。

Meeting people

Getting to know more people is really not easy and I should really cherish the conduits I have over meeting people. Yet, I sometimes despise pretence and that very childish conundrum especially meeting the opposite sex. Of course, if I want to be smart I should just lie and speak of misconception and appropriate jargons to attract their attention, but what would be good of that when we decide we're for each other?

This confounding question has really gotten onto my nerve these few days, as I get to know more people from China. My thesis has proven to be right again and again as these women and men called themselves single yet hide away the very essence why they're still single at such an old age as if their previous marriage were a shame not to be spoken of. Of course this would only have surfaced when they realized that they were not meant for each other after pretence has been discovered after courtship.

I'm now tired and frankly don't have time for these childhood gestures. Hopefully, that shiny star still awaits arrival of dusk over the event horizon. ;)

連累

為什麼有些女生比較主動與勤快卻有些女生比較被動呢？
為什麼有些女生必須以公主來看待卻有些可以自制呢也不需要花費太多心思與保養。。。

恐怖的公主們

最近真的接触到很多公主们，经过此接触才能深深的体会到什么是公主病，为什么男人得避免这公主病。 上星期三我就开始计划这礼拜六去Squamish Chief健行的路程。因为不想单独一个人去（虽然可以一个人去）所以发了n个短信给认识朋友们，看看有没有人想一起去。星期五来到终于有几位朋友感兴趣。一位女性朋友说着说着想要来却又找借口说这个不好，那个不好。我最后一气之下还是说你别来好，因为我实在无法忍受你的折腾。 我个人认为现在大陆的一胎政策真的带来很多有公主病的独身女，照成男们人极大的痛苦与打击。 男人啊，就为了那天鹅肉而失去了自尊，话的来吗？ 我现在也想开了，为了那严重公主病而付出将来是绝对不值得。。。

Chinese way of things

I'm now meeting people from China regularly on a weekly basis on a pretentious note of friendship and all, but of course my motive is to meet the other half and carry on life's procreation and fertilization of continuation of our spieces, but I would have never imagined that it would be this long and the road would be this treacherous...

Hopefully it'll happen someday. Until then I would need a car (check) and a place to live (not there yet), and abide by the Chinese traditions of husband provides for wife and family, gosh, I hated this!

I've been practice my singing this place, which advertise itself as a car repair shop but secretly allow people to congregate and have fun. This for sure fits Chinese proverb of hanging a goat's head but in fact sell dog meat. That's usually the Chinese mentality when opening business with the intention of profit maximization...

Once again, I'm alive and well except the hectic work schedule...

It's about time I go back to blogging!

People from mainland congregate together mostly so how can we establish multiculturalism when we resist at being one?

Maybe I'm resistant to love and being loved!

You ever had this feeling? I have!

Yes, I know. First post after God knows when...